And, these studies continue, and have expanded, years after our conversation. Brian Resnick reports that people are happier when they value time over money.

This, to me, makes perfect sense. If we’re spending all of our time to make money, when is there ever anytime for enjoyment?

The battle in daily decisions

This is true when making decisions outside of work. Recently, I was on the phone with a friend making plans to visit his new place. His apartment, located two hours south of me, is in an area where there are multiple methods of transportation available.

I was weighing my options to take the train (which would require an additional train ride to get to the main train station) or to drive (which seemed silly because I had someone available to give me a ride home.)

“What would make more sense cost-wise?” my friend asked.

“Well, they pan out about the same.” I replied.

“Then I say drive,” he said. “You’d spend two additional hours taking the train. Your time is way more valuable, even if there was a slight difference in price.”

Time trumps money

I knew he was right. The simple act of taking the train would eat up two hours of my day, time that could be spend enjoying myself with my friend.

And, someday, hopefully years from now, when I’m on my deathbed, will I want to remember enjoying an elongated afternoon with my friend or sitting alone on a train looking at memes?

In the end…

Money is always great to have, but, as we go through life, time has a way of becoming more fleeting. And, while it’s important to take care of ourselves and our families financially, overlooking the aspect of taking care of ourselves emotionally can often be detrimental.

While I am not overlooking the fact that we don’t always have the luxury of choosing time over money (as explored by Resnick,) it is important to keep this in mind when making small decisions where money may be less of an object. Taking small steps to aid toward overall happiness should always be the goal.

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